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I try when I'm writing to leave enough "space" for people to have their own interpretation, and not to direct it toward one conclusion. Then the audience would not be reacting, because they are being preached to or lectured at. I don't have that much to say that I think people should listen to me. -- Charlie Kaufman

What is love anyway? From my new vantage point, I realize that love is nothing more than a messy conglomeration of need, desperation, fear of death and insecurity about penis size. -- Charlie Kaufman

I feel like I want to keep moving toward idiosyncracy. Personal, personal, personal. -- Charlie Kaufman

To begin ... To begin ... How to start? I'm hungry. I should get coffee. Coffee would help me think. Maybe I should write something first, then reward myself with coffee. Coffee and a muffin. Okay, so I need to establish the themes. Maybe a banana-nut. That's a good muffin. -- Charlie Kaufman

The end is built into the beginning. -- Charlie Kaufman

There are too many ideas and things and people. Too many directions to go. I was starting to believe the reason it matters to care passionately about something, is that it whittles the world down to a more manageable size. -- Charlie Kaufman

Every day of your life, you have information that enters your head, and that information informs your understanding of things, or shifts it, or changes it, or deepens it, or confuses you. Every day, every moment of every day - it's like this thing that happens. -- Charlie Kaufman

I do throw out a lot of ideas, and I forget completely about them. -- Charlie Kaufman

I spend a lot of time in preproduction working with authors, and a lot of time in postproduction.: editing, music, all that sort of stuff. Casting. On the set there's not a lot for me to do. -- Charlie Kaufman

And so not only do you have to make that work, you can't really start putting the thing together in any form because some of the shots are very short and obviously many of them take so long, you're waiting months and months and months before you can see if it's going to be working emotionally. -- Charlie Kaufman

There are things that aren't represented in movies that are a big part of everyone's life. This is a movie about health and about the body. -- Charlie Kaufman

The biggest thing that I came across, right off the bat, was that you can't shoot this like a regular movie with multiple takes. You have to, because it's such a protracted process, break it down to the frame and pretty much get one shot. -- Charlie Kaufman

You and I share the same DNA.
Is there anything more lonely than that? -- Charlie Kaufman

She was nice. Nice is good. -- Charlie Kaufman

Why didn't I go in? I'm such a chicken. I'm such an idiot. I should have kissed her. I've blown it. I should just go and knock on her door and just kiss her. It would be romantic. It would be something we could someday tell our kids. I'm gonna do that right now.
[drives away] -- Charlie Kaufman

I don't think the world objectively exists the way we think it exists. There's a constant sort of storytelling process. -- Charlie Kaufman

I'm Jewish, and my family is Jewish. I was very interested in Woody Allen when I was growing up, but I don't think of myself as a Jewish writer. I'm more from suburbia, American suburbia. I'm more from the '70s than I am from Judaism. -- Charlie Kaufman

David Lynch is very important to me, and he does dreamlike movies, but my dreams are not like David Lynch's dreams. I have no interest in copying anybody's work. It would never occur to me to want this to look like someone else's thing. -- Charlie Kaufman

I have a personality that tends to be somewhat compulsive, and I do tend to think in a circular way. I dwell on the same things over and over and I try to figure out different ways of looking at the same issue. -- Charlie Kaufman

I like for people to figure things out for themselves. It's not like I have the right answer, but if I have a visceral reaction to something, I'm sure that other people will, too. -- Charlie Kaufman

I'm not a concept. Too many guys think I'm a concept or I complete them or I'm going to 'make them alive' ... but I'm just a fucked up girl who's looking for my own peace of mind. Don't assign me yours. -- Charlie Kaufman

I have ideas written down some places, but usually I can't find them. I'm not very organized. -- Charlie Kaufman

I don't think I've had a lonely moment in my life. -- Charlie Kaufman

There's theater in life, obviously, and there's life in theater. -- Charlie Kaufman

I can never watch anything I've been involved in, because I know it, and I know what the making of it was like, and I know what's been cut out and changed. I just know it. -- Charlie Kaufman

There's this inherent screenplay structure that everyone seems to be stuck on, this three-act thing. It doesn't really interest me. To me, it's kind of like saying, 'Well, when you do a painting, you always need to have sky here, the person here and the ground here.' Well, you don't. -- Charlie Kaufman

Everything I've written is personal - it's the only way I know how to write. -- Charlie Kaufman

I was trying to figure out what a memory feels like. -- Charlie Kaufman

And then to see the whole movie, you're pretty much waiting until the end of production. And the major lifting in terms of editing and all that stuff is done before you shoot the movie. That's an unusual way to work. -- Charlie Kaufman

I like titles that are a little difficult, because it's kind of counterintuitive. -- Charlie Kaufman

I like actors - I used to be one. -- Charlie Kaufman

I want to do my own thing, and I'm trying to get closer to realizing that as a filmmaker. -- Charlie Kaufman

I don't write genre stuff in any form. I'm not interested in it. I always try to do the opposite of that. -- Charlie Kaufman

Why do I fall in love with every woman I see that shows me the least bit of attention? -- Charlie Kaufman

In a lot of movies, especially big studio ones, they're not constructed in any other way than to get people to like them and then tell their friends. It's a product. -- Charlie Kaufman

Before you start production, you have characters you have created without actors in mind, then all of a sudden you've got actors. They bring an enormous amount in creating these characters, and creating the dynamics between the characters that you've written. -- Charlie Kaufman

The difference between a movie and a play is that the production you end up with is the production. If a movie that I spent time on turns out to be crap, it's never going to be made again. -- Charlie Kaufman

You've been a part of me forever. Don't you know that? I breathe your name in every exhalation. -- Charlie Kaufman

We have the script, we have the actors, and we're trying to figure out what this is, and you don't know what it is. You have to be open to what it's going to become rather than have this thing that you're trying to get to, which is boring. -- Charlie Kaufman

I have a lot of health anxiety. -- Charlie Kaufman

It's good when someone comes to a book or a movie and interacts with it. It's the difference between an illustration and a painting. An illustration serves a specific purpose, and a painting is something you can immerse yourself in. -- Charlie Kaufman

Failure is a badge of honor. It means you risked failure. And if you don't risk failure, you're never going to do anything that's different from what you've already done or what somebody else has done. -- Charlie Kaufman

I don't think screenwriting is therapeutic. It's actually really, really hard for me. It's not an enjoyable process. -- Charlie Kaufman

I think I've had pretty good experiences for the most part with the people who have directed my screenplays. -- Charlie Kaufman

Clem: Hide me somewhere deeper, somewhere really buried.
Joel: Where?
Clem: Hide me in your humiliation. -- Charlie Kaufman

It occurred to me that every work of art is a synecdoche, there's no way around it. Every creative work that someone does can only represent an aspect of the whole of something. I can't think of an exception to that. -- Charlie Kaufman

And also the idea of not making it apparent that it's different from the rest of the film, even though there are visual differences, the audience is supposed to think that they are with him when he wakes up in the morning. -- Charlie Kaufman

As I'm writing, I start to see connections, and themes I didn't see, and that sparks other things. So then I go back and rewrite things or alter them. It's a combination of intuition and a lot of finessing. It becomes a combination of the rational and the irrational. -- Charlie Kaufman

Scary is time passing and sickness and dying and regret and isolation and loneliness and relationship problems - as opposed to a guy in a hockey mask, which didn't seem that scary. -- Charlie Kaufman

The world needs you. It doesn't need you at a party having read a book about how to appear smart at parties - these books exist, and they're tempting - but resist falling into that trap. The world needs you at the party starting real conversations, saying, 'I don't know,' and being kind. -- Charlie Kaufman

I'm not a celebrity. I'm intentionally and defiantly not a celebrity. I don't have any interest in it. I don't have any talent for it. I keep my personal life out of my public life as cleanly as I can. -- Charlie Kaufman

My leg hurts, I wonder if it's cancer? There's a bump. I'm starting to sweat. Stop sweating. I've got to stop sweating.
Can she see it dripping down my forehead? She looked at my hair line. She thinks I'm bald. -- Charlie Kaufman

I'm old enough, by a long shot, to remember going to the library and spending days researching. If I was looking for a line from a poem or something else I needed, that would be the trip I would have to take. -- Charlie Kaufman

You're dealing with the body, and you're dealing with bodily functions. We romanticize everything about people in movies. -- Charlie Kaufman

I will be dying and so will you, and so will everyone here. That's what I want to explore. We're all hurtling towards death, yet here we are for the moment, alive. Each of us knowing we're going to die, each of us secretly believing we won't. -- Charlie Kaufman

We're all one thing, like cells in a body. 'Cept we can't see the body. The way fish can't see the ocean. And so we envy each other. Hurt each other. Hate each other. How silly is that? A heart cell hating a lung cell. -- Charlie Kaufman

There's a point I can get to where I start writing character and then through the dialogue, after all of this preparation, the thing starts to feel like it's a character developing through the dialogue. A lot of character traits do come from writing dialogue, but I have to be ready to do it. -- Charlie Kaufman

When you approach middle age, lots of stuff happens. Your body is aging, you're watching people around you get sick, you're watching people die, your mortality becomes very present at that point in your life. -- Charlie Kaufman

CLAIRE
I used to be a baby!
CADAN
I'm sorry. -- Charlie Kaufman

I think directing and writing are very different jobs. Obviously, directing is a more social and managerial job. The other thing about directing is that it's a very, very pragmatic job, and writing isn't. -- Charlie Kaufman

So when I write characters and situations and relationships, I try to sort of utilize what I know about the world, limited as it is, and what I hear from my friends and see with my relatives. -- Charlie Kaufman

I can talk endlessly about characters, or why someone did this or that, and what that dynamic and interaction is. I really love it, and I think that actors really respond positively to the fact that I like to talk about that stuff, because I'm not sure that all directors do. -- Charlie Kaufman

Meet me in Montauk... -- Charlie Kaufman

I studied acting at Boston University. I was in the theater department there. Somewhere in there I decided that wasn't what I was going to do and I went to the B.F.A. film program at N.Y.U. -- Charlie Kaufman

I do a lot of things intuitively. I'm not often consciously aware of what I'm doing. It's like in a dream: There's something going on that's powerful but you don't know exactly why. -- Charlie Kaufman

When I'm writing, I'm trying to immerse myself in the chaos of an emotional experience, rather than separate myself from it and look back at it from a distance with clarity and tell it as a story. Because that's how life is lived, you know? -- Charlie Kaufman

Sometimes I don't like the books that I'm reading. -- Charlie Kaufman

There is so much crap in the world, both in show and other businesses, that I try to be vulnerable myself, in the hopes that there is some truth I can get to, that makes people feel less alone in the world. -- Charlie Kaufman

I try to make things interesting and thought-provoking. -- Charlie Kaufman

There really is only one ending to any story. Human life ends in death. Until then, it keeps going and gets complicated and there's loss. Everything involves loss; every relationship ends in one way or another. -- Charlie Kaufman

There are so many people who are making movies now who can't get any kind of distribution, so the market seems like it's flooded. -- Charlie Kaufman

I hate a movie that will end by telling you that the first thing you should do is learn to love yourself. That is so insulting and condescending, and so meaningless. My characters don't learn to love each other or themselves. -- Charlie Kaufman

I don't have a style. I wouldn't say I have a style as a writer, either. I know people have said "This is what he does," but when I'm writing, I don't think about that. I don't think about a style. -- Charlie Kaufman

People will say things after a screening that it affects them in a certain way, which is why I don't like to explain what certain things are about. I want them to have that. It limits people's ability to understand something if I say it's "about this." That's happened to us a bunch on this. -- Charlie Kaufman

I've had to deal, a lot, with my own sense of intimidation at meeting famous people - especially actors, but really any famous people. -- Charlie Kaufman

I think that people create the world that they live in. Your existence is very subjective, and you tell stories and organize the world outside of you into these stories to help you understand it. -- Charlie Kaufman

I tend to not only read reviews, but also every little stupid thing online. It's a very bad idea, and there's a lot of angry people in the world. And it's weird to absorb all that weirdness. -- Charlie Kaufman

The only honest and generous thing for me to do is to give people myself. That's all I've got as an artist, so I want to do that in an unflinching way. -- Charlie Kaufman

I do have some theatrical background. I've written plays and seen plays and read plays. But I also read novels. One thing I don't read is screenplays. -- Charlie Kaufman

There's no way to approach anything in an objective way. We're completely subjective; our view of the world is completely controlled by who we are as human beings, as men or women, by our age, our history, our profession, by the state of the world. -- Charlie Kaufman

I think if I've worked anything through with screenwriting it's that I'm not going to be able to work anything through. -- Charlie Kaufman

Writing is a journey into the unknown. -- Charlie Kaufman

I do like escapism. I like going to the movies on a Friday night and seeing something fun. -- Charlie Kaufman

I wanted to deal with someone's idea of their relationship. -- Charlie Kaufman

I think everything I do is based on my experience in the world in one way or another. -- Charlie Kaufman

I have a tendency to hire people who tend to be unattractive to the studios. Maybe this is a bad idea. -- Charlie Kaufman

I choose to write characters from the inside because I feel like that's the way I'm gonna get the most honest version of them. -- Charlie Kaufman

CLEMENTINE: This is it, Joel. It's going to be gone soon.
JOEL: I know.
CLEMENTINE: What do we do?
JOEL: Enjoy it. -- Charlie Kaufman

I love working with actors. I love visual things. I always intended to be a writer who directs and a director who writes. -- Charlie Kaufman

Sand is overrated. It's just tiny little rocks. -- Charlie Kaufman

Seriously, I don't consider myself a writer. I don't think I have writing talent. But I will continue to do it. -- Charlie Kaufman

I want to try it to see what it's like and see what my stuff looks like when I take it from inception to completion. -- Charlie Kaufman

I'm interested in art, and I think about the process of making art. It's part of my personality, my experience of the world, so it ends up in the movies. It's where my head is. -- Charlie Kaufman

The passionate ones, the ones who go after what they want, may not get what they want, but they remain vital, in touch with themselves, and when they lie on their deathbeds, they have few regrets. -- Charlie Kaufman

I think dreams are metaphors. Everything you do in writing is metaphorical. So it seems like the same arena to me. -- Charlie Kaufman

I do have, at different times, a certain kind of self-consciousness in the world, an insecurity. -- Charlie Kaufman

I think you just assume that your memory is just sort of a video playback of your experience, but it's nothing like that at all. It's a complete refabrication of an event and a lot of it is made up, because you're filling in spaces. -- Charlie Kaufman

The only way to do something interesting is not care if you fail. -- Charlie Kaufman

I just try to be honest, because I think that's part of my job description as a writer. -- Charlie Kaufman

We are what we love, not what loves us. -- Charlie Kaufman

We're all subjective beings and trapped in our own realities and our own biographical stories and physical bodies and our histories - and that's the only way we can experience the world. -- Charlie Kaufman

Constantly talking isn't necessarily communicating. -- Charlie Kaufman

People ask me all the time, "What are your influences? Are you trying to do Beckett?" It's like, "No, I'm trying to do me." Whatever that is. I don't know what that is, but that's the basis. I'm trying to be true and I'm trying to be honest. -- Charlie Kaufman

I think if something resonates, even if it's surreal, it's because it is relatable and I think that that's a core issue for me. -- Charlie Kaufman

The sad thing about working on a movie is that you can never see the movie. -- Charlie Kaufman

I often have a theme in mind when I'm starting. I know that I want everything to be in a world of, say, evolution, or guilt. -- Charlie Kaufman

As a writer, or as a filmmaker, you have to present yourself, and part of what yourself is is what you're interested in, or what you think is funny, or what you think is sad, or what you think is horrible. -- Charlie Kaufman

What I came to understand is that change is not a choice, not for a species of plant, not for me. It happens, and you are different. -- Charlie Kaufman

I'm in my mind a lot. I live there. -- Charlie Kaufman

I actually think I'm probably more interested in structure than most people who write screenplays, because I think about it. -- Charlie Kaufman

Directing is a more pragmatic experience, where you have to deal with the restrictions of time and money that force you to make certain decisions you don't have to make when you're writing. -- Charlie Kaufman

I've kind of come to the conclusion that what passes for realism in movies has nothing to do with reality and that my stuff is more realistic than that. -- Charlie Kaufman

I try to present something that is true so I don't further destroy the world with my contribution to it. -- Charlie Kaufman

I want to create situations that give people something to think about. -- Charlie Kaufman

I think generally I'm kind of interested in subjective experience, what goes on inside someone's head, that being all they really know of the world. -- Charlie Kaufman

If you ever got me, you wouldn't have a clue what to do with me. -- Charlie Kaufman

I don't subscribe to anything. I sit there and I try to think about what seems honest to me. -- Charlie Kaufman

I think of myself as a guy who tries to write screenplays and now has tried to direct one. Anything more than that is meaningless and it gets in the way of being a real human being. -- Charlie Kaufman

I'm trying to tell a story and do it truthfully. -- Charlie Kaufman

My time on the set is the least of my involvement. Most of my time is in pre-production and post-production. -- Charlie Kaufman

Do not simplify. Do not worry about failure. Failure is a badge of honour. It means you risked failure. -- Charlie Kaufman

I really don't have any solutions and I don't like movies that do. -- Charlie Kaufman

We try to organize the world, which isn't organized the way our brains want to organize it. We tell stories about the people in our lives, we project ideas onto them. We project relationships with people, we make our lives into stories. I don't think we can avoid doing that. -- Charlie Kaufman

There are nearly thirteen million people in the world. None of those people is an extra. They're all the leads of their own stories. They have to be given their due. -- Charlie Kaufman

I'm not into extreme sports or something. I just live a quiet life. -- Charlie Kaufman

The way I work is not the way that you work, and the whole point of any creative act is that. What I have to offer is me, what you have to offer is you, and if you offer yourself with authenticity and generosity I will be moved. -- Charlie Kaufman

I graduated from college in 1980. -- Charlie Kaufman

You are what you love, not what loves you. -- Charlie Kaufman